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Portrayal of Women in the Media

November 27, 2009

The Dehumanization of Women


by Connor Boyack

 

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While modern civilization has made great strides in eradicating many of the scourges that have crippled and killed millions, it has overwhelmingly welcomed the latest cancer with wide open arms. Curiously, this disease is weaved into the popular culture in such a way that few see it for what it truly is. Instead, like cigarette smokers half a century ago, it is accepted by most as a healthy and/or innocent form of personal entertainment.

 

The plague that is pornography has devastated the lives and relationships of countless millions, infusing society with a strain of selfishness and baseness that, if unchecked, will contributed in large part to its ultimate doom. Consider a few of the alarming statistics: as of July 2003, there were 260 million pages of porn online, an increase of 1800% since 1998; more than 70% of men from 18 to 34 visit a pornographic site in a typical month; and over 45 million unique users visit adult websites each month in the United States alone. The data continues, each thread helping to weave part of the large and ugly picture that represents this blight on our society.

 

As the saying goes, sex sells. In 2006, the industry netted brought in over $97 billion—more than the revenues of Microsoft, Google, Amazon, eBay, Yahoo, Apple, and Netflix combined. Obviously, there is a market for this drug, and its demand is ever-increasing.

 

But at what cost? (more…)

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November 16, 2009

Girls’ Self-Esteem Coming Under Fire

 

By Michelle Rupe Eubanks from TimesDailey.com

 

barbieCatherine Young is about as typical as you can get for a fifth-grader.

 

At 10, she’s a competitive swimmer, works hard to keep her grades up and has lots of friends to help her wile away her free time.

 

Despite being active, Catherine said she’d like to lose a little weight, maybe two or three pounds from her four-and-a-half-foot frame.

 

“My mom reminds me not to eat when I get bored,” she said. “I know kids my age don’t need to be overweight, but it’s hard sometimes.”

 

Catherine said she vividly remembers being made fun of as a kindergartner for being a little chubby and, when stepping on the Wii Fit, she hears a computerized voice tell her she’s obese.

 

“I don’t like that,” Catherine said.

 

With everything going on in the life of an adolescent girl, why worry about being thin at all?

 

Jess Weiner, author and self-esteem guru, said it’s no longer up to the girls to decide. As a result, their self-esteem has come under attack, leaving them with skewed body images and, potentially, a lifetime spent trying to achieve an unrealistic physical ideal. (more…)

honor killing

November 3, 2009

‘Westernized’ Woman Allegedly Hit by Dad’s Car Dies

 

PHOENIX —  A young Iraqi woman whose father allegedly hit her with his car because she had become too Westernized died from her injuries Monday after lying in a coma for nearly two weeks.

 

westernized girlNoor Faleh Almaleki, 20, underwent spinal surgery and had been in a hospital since Oct. 20, when police say her father ran down her and her boyfriend’s mother with his Jeep as the women were walking across a parking lot in the west Phoenix suburb of Peoria.

 

The other woman, Amal Khalaf, is expected to survive.

 

Faleh Hassan Almaleki, 48, fled after the attack but was arrested Thursday when he arrived at Atlanta’s airport, where he was sent from the United Kingdom after authorities denied him entrance.

 

Peoria police interviewed him and brought him back to Arizona over the weekend, but have declined to release what Almaleki said to them.

 

At a court hearing over the weekend in Phoenix, county prosecutor Stephanie Low told a judge that Almaleki admitted to committing the crime. (more…)

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November 1, 2009

The Fight of Her Life

 

The following story is about our very own FreeGirl Envoy, Paula Brewer. She is an inspiration to us all!

 

From Boca Raton Magazine

by Kevin Kaminski

Paula Brewer defied expectations when she had a 12-inch clot removed from her pulmonary artery

 

Paula Brewer

 

Just one piece of encouraging news. That’s all Paula Brewer wanted to hear from her neurologist in October 2008. Hadn’t she earned it? Wasn’t it enough to survive one life-threatening episode two months earlier that brought her neurosurgeon to tears—and another, only a week later, that required a pre-eminent cardiovascular surgeon to remove something he had never seen in 28 years of open-heart procedures?

 

Apparently not. The neurologist looked at the Wellington resident sitting before him in a wheelchair and suggested that she consider another line of work. He didn’t see Brewer ever regaining the mobility needed to resume her career as a dental hygienist.

“I left in tears,” she says. “My one goal was to return to that office and do this to him.” Brewer defiantly raises her left middle finger.

Believe it or not, this is an encouraging piece of news. Last October, Brewer couldn’t move her middle finger—or much of anything on the left side of her body. She remained partially paralyzed, the result of a stroke that touched off a chain of events best summed up by Brewer’s then-boyfriend, Foy Jenkins. “She had one foot at death’s door,” he says, “and the other one on a banana peel.”

Nothing in Brewer’s family history or lifestyle suggested that the reason she fell in the shower while reaching for a towel on the morning of Aug. 6, 2008, was a stroke. She was 39, worked out regularly, didn’t smoke and loved the outdoors. But a CAT scan at a local hospital revealed a blood clot on the right side of her brain.

The neurosurgeon on call attempted to restore blood flow with a Merci Retriever, a corkscrew-like wire used to extract clots from arteries. Not only was the device unable to snag the elusive clot, the Retriever nicked the wall of Brewer’s carotid artery during the procedure.

“My sister told me that [the neurosurgeon] was crying,” Brewer says. “He told her that he was sorry—and that I may bleed to death.”

In truth, the clot had been maneuvered just enough to allow sufficient blood flow, which likely prevented permanent paralysis. Meanwhile, the nicked artery would heal on its own, and, a week later, Brewer was transferred to Bethesda’s Cornell Institute for Rehabilitation Medicine in Boynton Beach.

Ten days after suffering the stroke, Brewer was working with a physical therapist to restore movement along her left side when suddenly her breathing became labored and her blood pressure dropped. Jenkins, an emergency medical services captain with Miami-Dade Fire Rescue, suggested to the rehab physician that his girlfriend might have a pulmonary embolism.

Jenkins was right. Brewer had gone into cardiogenic shock, the result of clots that were damming up her vascular system. She was drowning in the blood pooling in her lungs, and her organs were shutting down. The clock was ticking.

“Most people die before they get to the operating room,” Jenkins says. “I told her family that they needed to say whatever they were going to say to her because this might be their last chance. I didn’t think she’d even make it to surgery.”

Once again, Brewer defied expectations. Shortly after midnight, Dr. Michael Carmichael, renowned cardiovascular and thoracic surgeon at Bethesda’s Heart Institute, removed a 12-inch clot—“I’ve never seen a blood clot that big,” he says—from Brewer’s pulmonary artery.

Incredibly, during the surgery, Carmichael discovered the probable cause of her stroke—an atrial septal defect, or a hole in her heart, which likely misdirected the original clot into the artery leading to the brain.

After two full months in the hospital, Brewer was discharged last Oct. 13. Two months later, she walked into her neurologist’s office and shook his hand—with her left hand. Today, she walks with a slight limp and still has dexterity problems that, for now, prevent her from returning to dental hygiene.

But just maybe, Brewer will tell you, she’s not meant to.

“I’ve had a lot of ups and downs, but I’ve accepted that this is a miracle—God’s miracle,” Brewer says. “I shouldn’t be here. He has a plan for me. I just need to find out what it is.”

Rape

Why Didn’t Witnesses Stop Gang Rape

Cries for Help Not Always Answered

 

By Anne Miller with SPHERE
 
 
 
Oct. 30) — A girl is gang raped outside a California high school, and an entire nation asks one question: How could this happen?

The details from police, so far, remain sparse: up to 10 possible attackers, up to 10 more witnesses, a 15-year-old victim and an attack that lasted more than two hours on the grounds of Richmond High School the night of the homecoming dance in the school gym.

The sad truth is that crimes like these, where witnesses fail to report or intervene in very public violent crimes, are well known to legal and psychological experts. The incidents, which happen more often than most people probably realize, illuminate troubling tendencies in society at large.

 

 

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People often hear cries for help and think someone else will call the authorities, or they don’t know what to do and so do nothing — a phenomenon known as the “bystander effect,” explained Denise Hines, a research assistant professor at Clark University in Massachusetts who teaches classes on that very subject. Witnesses may also fear enraging the attacker, or attackers, and becoming victims themselves. (more…)